'We all come from childhood,' wrote a renowned French writer and pilot. However, before achieving independence, we can hardly do without adults. In her new book, Lyudmila Petranovskaya, drawing on scientific attachment theory, easily and clearly describes the role of parents on the path to adulthood: 'How do dependence and helplessness turn into maturity, how do our love and care, year after year, form a secret support in a child, on which, like a rod, their personality rests?' After reading this book, you will not only be able to see what really lies behind children's 'whims,' ​​'spoiledness,' 'aggression,' and 'bad character,' but also understand how to help your child grow and develop without wasting energy fighting for your love.